Yep. It's that one day (or "was", rather). This one day that seems to leave women in either complete bliss and happiness or chocolate-eating cynicism and sulking. Why? Why do we females have to be so bipolar when it comes to this one day of cupid-flying and heart-drawing festivities?
Well. Let me tell you.
Face it. It's no secret that girls are wired to be emotional, romance-craving individuals. God created us with hearts that are eager to be seen as lovely and captivating. And so, for those of us out there with a man on our arms, Valentine's is a day to celebrate and bask in the glory of being loved and captivating to someone. For those of us still on the opposite side of the scales, let me remind you why being single is still a blessing and why Valentine's doesn't have to be miserable.
1. God loves you. He is the ultimate pursuer of your heart and He's good at it. Really good. Not only that, but His love fulfills that longing to be romanced your heart 39432784932742385923 times better than anything a man on this earth could ever dream of doing.
2. Chocolate is good. Eat lots of it with your girlfriends. For example, you could watch The Bachelor and eat a dozen home-made cookies. I speak from experience. It's magical.
3. Write an encouraging note to a girlfriend. I can't tell you how absolutely wonderful this made my day. Four of my dearest friends showered me with encouragement and love today in hand-written notes that landed in my mailbox, and I'm telling you- I was all smiles all day. The joyous tears that come when you know you're loved is priceless. Not only was this the love of my friends, but this was how Christ romanced me today. ...It may sound corny, but seriously- I've never experienced so much love in one day. "Bursting at the seams" is an understatement.
4. No pressure. Without a man on the arm, there's no pressure to look good or smell good or any of that jazz. Just grab your best friends and laugh. (and for those relationship-goers out there, isn't that what dating is like anyways?)
Why the sulking, single ladies? There is absolutely no reason. Celebrate the love of Christ that is rich and freeing and alive within us. He is an amazingly gracious God who seeks to have us delight in Him. So, do that. In every way you can think of, show someone how great God is. Write a note, spend some quality time, laugh, offer encouragement. Who says Valentine's is for lovers? ...Let's make it a day that celebrates all kinds of love. Holy-love, best-friend-love, mom-and-dad-love, sibling-love, boyfriend-love.